Just can't remember seeing you as XO, no one else seen you as XO it seems, so...
Yes it sucks but when you have the app up you really need to grind out command rolls(RO,CMP,SO,XO with XO+SO being best, CE is a lot more iffy but generally isn't as interactive with the squads/community).
Your answer about BE-executions is wonky, BEs are for rapid response compared to an execution along with other things. I don't think you have a clear grasp of the difference between a BE and execution but the main problem goes back to an ability to judge your command experience.
Grind more command hours
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