Your actions aren't proportional. According to the logic you are using I would have been free to kill you, because your reasoning seems to be that a IC reason to do something minor IRL allows you to do anything to the involved person IG.
Whenever I get boinked I get told 'you wouldn't do this IRL'. You wouldn't take somebodies clothes off in an argument.
You caused me to 'willfully' not board the shuttle by not telling me that you had the turret until it was too late to get onto the DS. All your actions are out of proportion just as much as mine were. The only difference is, just as I said before, that you griefed instead of shot.
How ironic, I largely used the same words and used the same tone as you and you call it toxic.